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NEXT Blame

You did it

Guilty as charged

Supposedly, blame hides well and is described as needing to be found. It smells like disapproval. Blame has a sibling called responsibility that sounds more angelic. Families don’t always resemble each other. The least common denominator is their ability to be accepted. Just like families. Sheep easily follow each other blindly. Blame sometimes looks around for a different path. It is rarely free. But it can be unlocked by acceptance. When you accept something, it melts into your energy and is absorbed with more ease. Think back to the first time you felt blame. Rejection was probably the next feeling. When that goes unchecked too many times, the formula gets set. The after affect can linger and nudge out the chance of getting to the real solution of acceptance. Counterintuitively, acceptance stops the emotional argument and starts the lookout for correction. When blame gets a chance to really do good work, it starts growth. Forward movement with resilience is the key to healing energy.

Have you gotten bolder?

Option #1: Do you think others blame you for anything?

Option #2: Can you change the way you accept yourself?

Option #3: What can you do to learn from blame?

That’s it. After you choose the option that best describes how you react to blame, take a few minutes to describe why you chose that option and what action, if any, may come next.

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Nancy Pyle is a Master Practitioner in NLP and a Master Certified Strategic Life Coach

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