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You Should Know

There is controversy about space on a regular basis. Not the kind of space out there where the planets live. This kind of space is very close to each of us. It’s your place. The discussion usually centers around the chance that someone might be in the wrong place according to someone else. Knowing your place in life, in society or in any other venue is a judgement call. The only place that is correct is the one you choose. For many decades, many humans thought it was their right to point out the fact that someone wasn’t in their place. The inference may have been that the incorrect station should not have been on the list of places available. A rising above was typically noted as the error. Some aspects have changed over time and the effort of telling someone that they were in fact living above their lot in life has decreased in action. But not always in thought. The best way to get around this kind of accusation is to come and go without giving it attention. Letting go of someone else’s faulty judgement is the simplest way of leaving them speechless. Their frustration may grow, but that is an internal issue. Letting go of the decisions others make about you can be empowering. Eventually it will allow you to reconnect with the exact right place you want to occupy. Life can resemble the schoolyard even into adulthood. There are those who feel the need to proclaim their power, those who feel powerless and the mob who watch. Determining which group is yours shouldn’t have to hurt.

Have you received your rank?

Option #1: Do you think you are where you belong?

Option #2: Can you come and go comfortably?

Option #3: Where would you like to fit in?

That’s it. After you choose the option that best describes your place in life, take a few minutes to describe why you chose that option and what action, if any, may come next.

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Nancy Pyle is a Master Practitioner in NLP and a Master Certified Strategic Life Coach

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