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A Necessity

There are many practical ways that I am vital in life. As a spouse and parent, there are occasions where my participation is essential. At work, there are a few tasks that only I can complete for my team. For the pets in my life, I am the food provider and door keeper.

Only required persons may enter

There are places where access is denied if you can’t prove your importance. Hospitals, secure offices and the back room of many businesses have large reminders not to enter certain areas. Nuclear sites don’t get many visitors since their signs are often not welcoming to the outside world. Children are good at placing handmade notes on bedroom doors to keep out the unwanted. You have been denied access.

Vital energy

Physically speaking, we need energy to remain vital. Exercise, good food and healthy thought management keep our bodies and minds secure. We should not let in those who do not need to enter. Letting in poor energy thoughts weakens the system. Surrounding myself with those whose energy is vital to me keeps my level challenged. If I surrounded myself with anyone who just let life happen to them, I might catch that same vibe. Disaster.

Vibrantly vital

I want to be vital. I want to be essential to others. Being indispensable sounds good until you realize that you might be taken advantage of. That would be a choice. But showing up in life as significant is a commonly held wish. We want to be that vital person to someone else. Science tells us that experiments don’t work out well without the correct components. Explosions occur. The best way to know what someone considers vital in life starts with a big question. Honest answers help fill in the blanks. It is vital to be truthful; it is also the quickest way to surround yourself with the right group for you. Your mastermind circle is all in for you and you are all in for them. Now that’s vital.

Can you be bold enough to build your circle with essential people? Can you be vital to someone else, even if they can’t fill that need for you? What do you need to think to be vital to yourself?

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Nancy Pyle is a Master Practitioner in NLP and a Master Certified Strategic Life Coach