appreciating the everyday

Is that the doorbell? We've all been there. Especially lately. The doorbell rings and everybody becomes a statue. My first thought is that it must be some kind of a…

Creation isn't an accident A long time ago, you fell into a life that was created. You may not be sure how this happened or who started this life for…

Overindulgence sounds luxurious I have been thinking a great deal about how I do things. Examining my own actions brings up all the feelings about all the ways I could…

What was your life supposed to be Like most children I was asked what I was going to do with my life. Adults who should have already known the idiocy…

It is harder to stop than start Stopping has a definite negative vibe. A "hard" stop is like a crash. We like to go, go, go. It seems unnatural to…

Fail, alot Failure needs a rebranding. Face it, you think it's bad to fail. Well, you are incorrect. Failing is how you grow and change in the fastest way. In…

Start at the beginning The beginning is not always where you think it will be. Sometimes the beginning is a little closer to the middle but it can be near…

Happiness is fleeting In fairy tales, the happily ever after comes after many trials. We are raised thinking that if we work hard enough, search wide enough, and choose well…

Arguments can waste time Looking back at my past, I can remember having arguments with myself repeatedly about things that had already happened. Real disagreements about how I mishandled something…